Quarantine Life

It's been a hot minute since I posted in here. Like three years. I really enjoy reading old posts but just don't seem to have the time to keep it up.

However, since the whole world has gone crazy with COVID-19, I really wanted to document what our experience is like. So that I can remember it later with actuals, not I think it was like this...

So, here goes.

We have been in Turkey since March 17th. We returned home on March 15th at like 2:30 am from being in the village for a week working on an aquaponics system. On March 15th we slept in, did laundry, met with some of the other Americans in our city to tell them we'd be leaving on our visa run sooner than thought (original plan was April 4th) and to see how everyone was doing with the coronavirus stuff. America had announced it was closing its borders to flights from Europe the previous week so thousands of people were trying to scramble back to the States. That night we learned that Georgia was closing its borders with Russia, and some other countries had also closed their borders to foreigners that day. We decided to try to leave the next day.

So on March 16th we got up, bought Turkish visas, bought airline tickets, did laundry and tried to pack and send the necessary emails. I took the girls to a friend's house to use their dryer and to play for a bit. Then we went to our other friend's house to drop off our hamster. Then home to pack some more. I honestly was a basket case and spent way more time reading the news than I did packing and cleaning.

We left home at 11 pm and headed for the airport. Lane got sick in the car on the way there and then again in passport control. We arrived into Istanbul at around 6:30 am to a mostly dead airport. We have been staying in one the apartments we've stayed in before, right down the road from where we used to live. The first week was great, although everything closed the day we got here. No stores (other than grocery stores), movie theaters, etc. were open. Even Starbucks was closed. We got groceries at Carrefour and dinner in the mall. The girls played in the park out back, we saw Greg and Diana (met them at a park near us) and their kids, and that's all we did for the first 10ish days.

Last Friday night Turkey announced that anyone under the age of 20 isn't allowed outside. So we have spent the past week inside. The girls have not left the apartment other than to go to the apartment upstairs with us for about an hour to visit another family (who actually lives here but had a house fire so doesn't have a place to live). We have been doing schoolwork and playing lots of Bohnanza, which we have learned since being here. We've played Farkle and Sleeping Queens and Rat-a-Tat-Cat and Zeus on the Loose and every other game we brought. Shannon has done Bible story with them each morning and then "Bible story questions" and hide-and-seek with them every evening. We've had three family movie nights and ordered food (although Shannon has to go wait for it outside because we're not allowed to have them bring it into the building). We've done family exercise time each day, doing a dance party and stretches or squats and push ups.

We have had a lot of fun. But I am exhausted. We didn't bring much to do. The girls didn't bring much. They're not allowed outside. The neighbors have complained that we're too loud. And keeping them quiet and occupied is exhausting. Add in regular stuff (like FaceTime calls nearly every night and emails that need to be written and discipline and cooking and laundry and cleaning) and I'm exhausted.

Tomorrow is Easter. I feel guilty that I don't feel like I can do more, that I haven't done more. It never occurred to me when packing that we'd be here for Easter. It never occurred to me when shopping that Easter was coming. My heart celebrates Easter every day, but I feel guilty that I haven't been able to do more for the holiday of it.

Yesterday at like 10 pm the Turkish government announced that there was a $500 fine for anyone who left their home this weekend. So we are stuck in this apartment and are literally not allowed to leave. Any thoughts I had about changing up the Easter menu or doing something special or making deviled eggs instead of just boiled ones flew out the window last night when I learned we couldn't leave.

I'm trying to be grateful that I went to the store on Wednesday and we do have enough food. That we have a 3-bedroom apartment and comfy beds. We have Netflix and books that a friend lent us. We brought games. We are healthy and fine, and good medical care is a 20-minute walk away should we need it.

But the unknown of "Will we get new visas in May?", "Will the borders be open if we do have visas?", "Will any tourists come this summer?" is weighing on us. We are weary with the unknown. I am weary, wondering if we should try to figure out how to go back to America or if staying here really is the best choice. We are weary. We are tired. We are hopeful.

And Then She Was Five

This blog seems to be mostly dead these days, but we did have a birthday recently, and Lane did remind me to ask them these questions. So here are Noel's answers. Maybe someday I'll get back into the habit of blogging, but not likely soon. =)

1. Your favorite colors are blue and white.
2. Your favorite toy is your puppy.
3. Your favorite fruit is asian pear.
4. Your favorite TV show is Paw Patrol.
5. Your favorite movie is Walking with the Dinosaurs.
6. Your favorite thing to wear is your sparkle skirt, sparkly shoes, and white t-shirt with sequins.
7. Your favorite animal is a crocodile.
8. Your favorite song is the Dinosaur Train song.
9. Your favorite book is Dinosaur Days.
10. Your best friend is Piper.
11. Your favorite snack is dates.
12. Your favorite drink is hot vanilla.
13. Your favorite breakfast is baked oatmeal.
14. Your favorite lunch is grilled cheese.
15. Your favorite dinner is pesto pasta with peas.
16. Your favorite games are Uno and Sleeping Queens.
17. Your favorite thing to play outside is scooters and dinosaur toys.
18. Your favorite holiday is Christmas.
19. At night you sleep with Raffie, Bunny, Blankie, Porcupine, Fox, water bottle and tissues.
20. When you grow up you want to be a paleontologist.

24 Months Old

And here we are. My baby is two.

At 24 months (ok, ok, almost 25 by now) Raye:

*has 23 teeth. Only one more to go!

*is paci-free when she sleeps. I took her paci away when Shannon left town for a couple of weeks (told her it went bye-bye with daddy). It was rough, rough going for a couple of weeks but by about a month in all was fine. She's sleeping normally (maybe even better!) now and I don't have to keep up with germ-catching pacifiers. Win-win.

*loves to dance. She's got the most moves of any of our kids, and every time she hears music she'll say, "Mama. Dance!" and start dancing or, "Mama. Song!" and start swaying to the music. She loves to dance.

*seems to have come out of the super-picky phase with regards to food. She still has her favorites, but overall she's eating much better than she has been. I think it's because she's gotten most of her teeth and her mouth doesn't hurt as much.


Sporting her birthday backpack and doing pretty well with do-a-dots.

*loves Mickey Mouse. She has finally decided that she'll watch a little bit of television, but mostly only if it's Mickey Mouse. Which I'm ok with. I've never been one to want my kids to love TV, but gosh it sure is nice when they'll be entertained for 22 minutes so I can do things like clean a chicken without being interrupted a million times. Wow, bunny trail. Anyways she loves Mickey and says stuff all the time now like, "Goofy si-yee, dance, hot dog."

*is all about doing it all herself. She wants to do everything: put the key in the door, go to the bathroom by herself, put on her own diaper, etc., etc., etc. Of course there's no way we let her do about 50% or more of what she wants to do, but we try to let her do what she can.


Still sleeps three or more hours each afternoon. I usually have to wake her up.

*loves bugs. She gets this from Lane. Lane loves bugs. Raye loves Lane. Therefore Raye loves bugs. She's held lizards, baby frogs, tadpoles, and beetles. She gets so mad when someone else is holding a bug and not letting her have a turn.

*actually likes books now. She'll sit still for whole board books and bring you more of them to read. She likes Goodnight Moon; Panda Bear, Panda Bear; Brown Bear, Brown Bear; and most all of the other standard favorites of toddlers.

*knows the names of colors but can't always get them right. Still working on this with her for sure, as well as counting correctly. My favorite is when she says, "eight, nine, ten, yellow, twelve..."


This girl is a mess when it comes to ice cream!

*is in 3T clothes for the most part. She still has a couple of 2T or 24 month things in her drawers but mostly...3T. So crazy.

*throws her hands up in the air and says, "Way!" (yay!) when she's happy or when she likes your idea.

*loves to go outside. Often the first thing she'll ask in the morning (after she asks for "puffs and O's" [cereal]) is "bye bye soon?" It might be quickly followed with, "Watch Mickey Mouse?"

*fun things she's saying, "Me too __________" Me too bwush teef. Me too co-wur. Me too new paste (toothpaste). Me too bye bye. And so on. "Ma-ma, come git me!" "See ya way-ter, abigador!"


Birthday scooters!

She's such a sweetie pie and I'm so grateful for her in our lives!

And Then She Was Two

Rainbow all-around!

Little Miss Raye turned two on May 1st. Shannon was scheduled to be out of town that weekend, so we had planned on having her party the weekend before, but then he ended up taking a last-minute trip to the States, so we had to postpone her party. So, we had it on...the 7th? Whatever that Saturday was. It was really low-key.

I made a rainbow cake and bought rainbow-colored balloons and streamers. Lane and Noel helped draw/color some rainbow pictures. Some single gals who live in town came over and did all the decorating for me...it was the best decorating job ever! We ordered in for dinner. Raye opened a few presents while people were eating, we sang to her and had cake and ice cream. It was just laid back, which was exactly what I needed after single-momming it for 18 days.


Opening a present from Papa Buck and Nona Lou.


Legos from my dad and stepmom.

Raye's actual birthday was really low-key, too. I flew to Moscow to spend a couple of days with Shannon and flew back on Raye's birthday. After I got home we had to go grocery shopping and I had to make dinner, and the weather was nasty. So the actual day was kind of a bust. No birthday pancakes or anything. But her party was fun, and we bought her a scooter (actually we got all the girls scooters since we didn't buy them birthday presents, hoping they wouldn't notice and we could buy them something with wheels once the weather turned nice), so I'm not going to call it a complete failure. We have done worse on our kids' second birthdays...poor-middle-child-Noel had to take an international flight on her second birthday... 

Baltic Adventures (Part 3)

Family photo across the Neva River from Peter and Paul Fortress

Well I am quite behind on blogging about our Baltic Adventures, but here I am. We'll see if I can remember how things went almost nine months ago.







We arrived into St. Petersburg in the early afternoon. After negotiating for a taxi we found our way to our hostel. We stayed at Hostel Club Chao Mama and it was so nice for a hostel. The only drawback was that we had to walk up two long flights of stairs, which was quite an ordeal with our 1, 3, and 5-year olds, 2 carry-ons, stroller, and duffle bag. But our room was big and beautiful and the girls loved the bunk beds. We made them sleep on bottom and while they were so bummed about that, we were very glad when Noel rolled out of the bed in the middle of the night that we had followed our gut and made them sleep on bottom!


Church of the Savior on Spilled Blood


Same church, different angle.




Trinity Cathedral



I don't remember the exact order of things...we may have made everyone lay down for a bit, but I think we hit to the streets pretty quickly. We walked from our hostel up into the main area of town and grabbed a bite to eat. It was a relief to be back where we could afford to eat out! We ordered burgers and sandwiches and tons of french fries. Then we headed back down the way we had come and got seats on a tour of the canals. Shannon had been to St. Petersburg before and it was something he highly recommended, especially since we only really had about 24 hours there. He said we'd be able to see all the main stuff this way and not have to walk everywhere. It was a good decision.





St. Petersburg is beautiful. It does not feel like Russia one little bit. It reminded me of Western Europe, of Italy, of the coastal cities in Poland, of Maribor, Slovenia. Not Russia. Clean, gorgeous, fun restaurants and cafes everywhere, etc. I'm so glad we went for the day.




Lomonosov Bridge


St. Issac's Cathedral


Anichkov Bridge and Beloselsky-Belozersky Palace



After our tour of the canals we headed back to the hostel, but not before stopping to buy some snacks, water, and ice cream. We got settled for the night and after what was not a great night's sleep (something about five people in a hotel room) we got up and headed out to look for some breakfast. We walked for forever. But I was looking for something special, the perfect place to eat a breakfast that would also appeal to our kids. We stopped in a few places but they were either too fancy (oatmeal or eggs with all sorts of strange ingredients) or too plain (same ole same ole breakfast rolls that we can buy here). So we kept looking. And we finally found it. I wish I had taken pictures but I think we were so hungry that we weren't looking at anything except the food! We found a great cafe that had pastries and delicious coffee. We ordered two baskets of pastries, four large Americanos, a bowl of oatmeal, and probably some juice for the girls. We ate and had coffee and felt like we were in a fancy place in America. It was awesome.


The Winter Palace, home to the Hermitage


Palace Square 


Alexander Column in Palace Square


Peter and Paul Cathedral

After breakfast (near the Winter Palace) we walked towards the palace and looked around, headed to the water and took some pictures, and began the walk back to the hostel. We packed up and got a taxi to the airport, which is when we realized just how royally we had been ripped off on our ride from the train station to the hostel. I don't remember the prices, just that the trip to the airport was a lot longer and about 1/3 the price. We had negotiated the taxi from the train station down as far as we felt he would go. Live and learn, I guess.

On the way to the airport all the girls crashed in the cab. They were so tired but such troopers. We caught our last flight home and were so, so glad to finally make it back with 3-year visas in hand!

23 Months Old

Attacking her sister. A favorite these days.

I'm late. Again. Can't believe my baby, and likely my last baby, will be two in 20 days!

At 23 months old Raye:

*has her two bottom molars. They're not all-the-way popped through yet, but definitely on their way and her mood improves the more they come through.

*loves to sing, do puzzles, be read to, build with Duplos, and play with play-doh. Those are her favorites. Her favorite songs right now are "The Wheels on the Bus" and "Baa, Baa, Black Sheep." She sings, "Baa, baa, black sheep have you any MORE!"


What a hoot. She loves, loves, loves play-doh.

*has an ever-expanding vocabulary. She regularly speaks in sentences and although a lot of the words in the sentence are not clear, enough of the words are clear that we can understand what she's trying to say: "Uhh uhh song a bus a beep a baby" = "I want to sing the song about the bus and the horn and the baby." Some of her most-used phrases these days: "Watch dis!," "Mama's turn. Way's turn.," "Help Wayne/Wel.," "Four-tee-tee" (means hide-and-seek).



*can count to 12. She usually does it when someone else has started counting and then she'll finish up with all the numbers she knows. She doesn't itemize things yet.

*is still taking about a 3-hour nap during the day. At night she goes to bed around 7:30-8:00 and usually wakes up around 6:30. She's still in a size 6 shoe and is in all 2T/24 months clothes, but I pulled out the bag of 3T stuff the other day. Some of her 2T shirt sleeves are too short already.



*has reached the "I do it!" stage. She wants to do everything: put on her clothes, go to the bathroom, climb up and down stairs, wash her hands, and so on. Of course she can't do a lot of these things too well yet so ends up asking for help. It's frustrating.

*still loves to be outside. She loves to hang from bars. She loves to swing. Yesterday we walked to the store and she pulled a neighbor's toy truck with a string attached the whole way there and back. I think we'll be buying her a pull toy and a couple of large balls for her birthday. She loves to climb, chase after animals/birds, hang from monkey bars, attempt to balance on the barrier between grass and the sidewalk or road, and of course, play in the dirt.



She's quite the character and is so good most of the time. She definitely has her moments and is still learning boundaries, but overall she's not whiney, is obedient, and loves her sisters. She is a joy to have around and I'm so glad I'm actually getting to enjoy her. This is my first time with an almost-two-year old where I haven't been either exhausted from pregnancy or having a newborn. It's pretty nice.

And Then She Was Six

Well, once again, better late than never. We headed to the States for a month one week after Lane's birthday, so blogging has definitely been on the back burner. I mean, it's been on the back burner for years, but all the same...it's worse when you're traveling around and never in the same place more than a few nights in a row.


I lost my brain and left the cake on the table in the morning. Raye got a swipe out of it with a bowl, but I think I did an ok job of covering it back up and fixing it. I was so glad I had saved some frosting after decorating the night before!

Lane requested a flower cake this year so I did the best I could to make her a pretty cake. She's pretty much a girly-girl (dresses, hair ribbons, princesses, etc.) with some crazy tomboyish tendencies thrown in there (jumping, running, hanging, roar-ing, etc.). But she's gone for "pretty" the last three birthdays, so I think that shows she's girly at heart.



Her birthday fell on a Friday this year and we started the day with birthday pancakes and some Skype calls. She opened some of her gifts and we just had a pretty normal day. She was supposed to go to her local classes that afternoon but they were canceled so she just got to hang with me and help decorate for her party instead.


Some of her loot.



We had spaghetti for dinner and leftover pizza for lunch. She had a chocolate cake and some vanilla cupcakes, and we even played a game at her party. It was like musical chairs except with dancing instead of trying to sit on a chair, the last person to freeze when the music stopped was out. It was pretty funny because Noel didn't want to play so it was only boys left and most of them were pretty much wallflowers. Lane ended up winning the only game at her own party. I've never been one to do a lot of games or prizes or even special decorations but our girls are getting old enough now that they've been to a few parties and now expect games and that kind of stuff at their own. Sigh. It's kind of hard to find games related to flowers!

All in all I think she had a fun day and felt special. That's always the goal of birthdays, isn't it?

And of course we asked her the same questions that we've asked for her last four birthdays. This time she actually has 10 of the same answers, which is kind of fun. For last year's answers you can go here.

1. Your favorite color is pink.
2. Your favorite toy is your Sleeping Beauty doll.
3. Your favorite fruit is strawberries.
4. Your favorite TV show is Paw Patrol.
5. Your favorite movie is Beauty and the Beast.
6. Your favorite thing to wear is dresses.
7. Your favorite animal is elephants.
8. Your favorite song is, "La La La's" (Brahms Lullaby).
9. Your favorite book is The Boxcar Children.
10. Your best friend is Noel.
11. Your favorite snack is crackers.
12. Your favorite drink is juice.
13. Your favorite breakfast is cereal (puffs).
14. Your favorite lunch is pizza.
15. Your favorite dinner is spaghetti.
16. Your favorite game is Sneaky Snacky Squirrel.
17. Your favorite thing to play outside is tag.
18. Your favorite holiday is Christmas.
19. At night you sleep with: blankie.
20. You want to be a paleontologist when you grow up.